Clients I Work With
I love working with 1st, 1.5, and 2nd generation Asian American individuals, couples, queer/CNM/kinky folx, LGBTQIA+, multicultural relationships, therapy for high achievers, therapists, sex workers (current and former), ancestral & intergenerational trauma healing, healing codependency (setting boundaries, recovery from people-pleasing, coming home to yourself after losing yourself in relationships), dating, sex, and relationships (healing and deepening with your partner(s), friends, parents, siblings, family, work, and most importantly, with yourself), healing complex relational trauma, meaning, fulfillment, and purpose, major life transitions, and psychedelic integration therapy.
Approach
I have a warm, compassionate, interactive, holistic, trauma-informed, social justice-minded, and collaborative approach to therapy and coaching and have been supporting my cherished clients for over 20 years, virtually and in-person.
Beliefs & Lived Experience
I have lived experience as a 2nd generation Asian American female, eldest daughter of immigrant parents from Hong Kong and Macau raised in the Midwest, survivor of childhood sexual abuse and adult sexual assault, middle-class, neurodivergent (ADHD), queer, able-bodied, retired Professional Dominatrix (ProDomme for 15 years, kink educator and founder of Transformational Domination utilizing BDSM ritual for healing purposes), writer (published author of two books including a children's book "The Little Girl, The Ocean, and The Moon", artist, divorcee, former stepparent of five children between the ages of 9-19, social justice advocate, and practicing Theravada Buddhist. I hold all of these identities equally, with great reverence and deep gratitude. In our work together, you will be seen, honored, and supported as all of who you are, as you have been, and as you will become.
More About My Practice
I offer telehealth sessions via Zoom (CA, WA, and OR) and a limited number of in-person sessions in downtown Seattle, WA.
Ages Served
Adults
Older Adults (65+)
Young Adults (18-25)
Older Adults (65+)
Young Adults (18-25)
Services Provided
Couples Therapy
Family Therapy
Individual Therapy
Family Therapy
Individual Therapy
Languages Spoken
English
In Person Availability
Seattle, WA (downtown)
Specializations
Modalities
Attachment-Based
Brainspotting
Clinical Hypnosis
Compassion Focused
Discernment Counseling
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Existential Therapy
Family Based Treatment
Family Therapy
Gottman Method
Humanistic Therapy
Integrative Therapy
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP)
Mindful Self Compassion
Mindfulness
Motivational Interviewing
Narrative Therapy
Person-Centered Therapy
Psychodrama
Psychodynamic Therapy
Relational Therapy
Sex Therapy
Somatic Experiencing
Somatic Therapy
Brainspotting
Clinical Hypnosis
Compassion Focused
Discernment Counseling
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Existential Therapy
Family Based Treatment
Family Therapy
Gottman Method
Humanistic Therapy
Integrative Therapy
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP)
Mindful Self Compassion
Mindfulness
Motivational Interviewing
Narrative Therapy
Person-Centered Therapy
Psychodrama
Psychodynamic Therapy
Relational Therapy
Sex Therapy
Somatic Experiencing
Somatic Therapy
Specialties
Anxiety
BIPOC
Codependency
Depression
Divorce
First Responders and Medical Professionals
Gender Identity
Grief
Immigration and Acculturation
Infertility
LGBTQ+
Life Transitions
Neurodivergent Affirming
Non Monogamy
Parts Work
Perfectionism
Racial Identity
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Sex Therapy
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Sexual Abuse
Spirituality
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
BIPOC
Codependency
Depression
Divorce
First Responders and Medical Professionals
Gender Identity
Grief
Immigration and Acculturation
Infertility
LGBTQ+
Life Transitions
Neurodivergent Affirming
Non Monogamy
Parts Work
Perfectionism
Racial Identity
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Sex Therapy
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Sexual Abuse
Spirituality
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
Insurance and Payment
Payment Accepted
Flexible Spending Account (FSA)
Health Savings Account (HSA)
Out of Network (Superbills Provided)
Private Pay (Superbills Not Provided)
Session Fees
$330
-$500
State Licensed In
California
Oregon
Washington
Oregon
Washington