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Jenny DeSantis

Life Balance Psychotherapy

LCSW, CASAC, LCADC

Licensed In:
Massachusetts, Nevada, New Jersey, New York
“I work with adults for individual and couples therapy. I specialize in childhood trauma/attachment issues, and how these experiences affect adult relationship issues. I also specialize in alcohol/gambling/substance use disorder.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · Attachment · Burnout · Codependency · Divorce · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD
Christine Agic, LCSW

Christine Agic Therapy for Individuals and Couples

LCSW

Licensed In:
Connecticut, Florida, Iowa, Utah
“My goal is to help you feel more grounded and in control, reconnect with joy, and create relationships that feel emotionally alive and supportive. With couples, I specialize in helping partners who feel stuck in conflict or disconnected from one another reconnect, rebuild trust, and create a more emotionally supportive and cherishing relationship.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · Anxiety · Attachment · Burnout · Career Counseling · Codependency · Depression · Divorce · Executive Coaching · Grief · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Life Transitions · Panic · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Christy Long

Best Chance Counseling pllc

LCSW

Licensed In:
Idaho, Utah
“I work with adolescents, and adults who are navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, grief and loss, addiction, and major life transitions. I also enjoy working with couples and families who want to improve communication, strengthen connection, and create healthier relationships.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · Anxiety · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Divorce · Grief · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Spirituality · Trauma & PTSD · Weight Loss
Shelia Ransom Jenkins

Delta Compassionate Care Counseling

LICSW LCSW

Licensed In:
Colorado, Illinois, Minnesota
“I work with adolescents, adults, and couples navigating anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, and life transitions. Many of my clients feel overwhelmed, stuck in negative patterns, or unsure how to move forward. I support individuals facing stress, trauma, grief, and low self-worth, as well as couples experiencing communication breakdowns, trust issues, or emotional distance. I also have experience working with postpartum concerns, family conflict, and behavioral challenges. If you’re feeling unheard, exhausted, or disconnected, from yourself or others, you’re not alone. Together, we’ll create a safe, supportive space to build insight, strengthen coping skills, and move toward meaningful, lasting change.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Burnout · Career Counseling · Depression · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Grief · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Menopause & Perimenopause · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Panic · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Trauma & PTSD
Lea Trageser, LMFT

Helix Marriage and Family Therapy PLLC

LMFT

Licensed In:
Massachusetts, New York
“Do you want to feel confident in yourself & your relationship with loved ones? Maybe you're a self identified perfectionist or people pleaser, struggle to say no or express yourself. You try to keep the peace, so you avoid conflict, put others first, & are stuck in a vicious cycle of bottling your emotions at the cost of internal peace. Only so much can be swept under the rug before it seeps out in other ways: Often anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem. Together we will process the past to build a better future. From family to intimate partners, friendships, & most importantly the relationship with yourself, I am here to help.”
Services:
Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Codependency · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Panic · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Scott Hubener

Scott Hubener Counseling

LCMHC

Licensed In:
Florida, North Carolina
“I specialize in working with clients experiencing depression, anxiety, life transitions, trauma-related symptoms, communication challenges, and relationship issues. It is my goal to be a collaborative partner who will provide you with the skills and tools to navigate through the process of self-discovery, coping and healing. Life may present us with events, circumstance, or relationships are impacting our well-being. It is courageous to take the first step, and I respect and honor the vulnerability that can come with the process of beginning counseling. I look forward to the opportunity to work alongside you.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · ADHD · Aging · Anger Management · Anxiety · Attachment · Autism · Behavioral Issues · Burnout · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Depression · Divorce · Grief · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Older Adults & Aging · Panic · Perfectionism · Phobias · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD
Gregory Gooden

Emergence Therapy

LMFT

Licensed In:
California, Florida, Texas
“My ideal clients live in the intersectionality of LGBTQIA+, identity development, life transitions, addiction issues, and non-standard relationships such as non-monogamous and/or polyamorous people.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Kayla Mennenga

Bravely Connected Therapy, PLLC

LMFT

Licensed In:
Iowa, Utah
“I enjoy working with anyone who comes to therapy. Most of my work centers around couples who want to communicate more clearly, feel closer, or who are navigating feelings of betrayal. I also support women who are moving through major life transitions, feeling disconnected from themselves, or carrying wounds that still need space, patience, and care.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Sex Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Attachment · Burnout · Codependency · Depression · Divorce · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Spirituality · Suicidal Ideation · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Mandi Maycumber

Carmichael Counseling Services

PsyD

Licensed In:
California, Washington
“My specialties are in Substance use / addiction, Anxiety, Relationship issues, and Trauma. I am a dynamic and adaptable therapist on a mission to help people increase life satisfaction. Specializing in helping individuals and couples with relational distress by eliciting your vision for wellness and challenging your limiting beliefs within the context of a safe and empathetic therapeutic relationship.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · ADHD · Anger Management · Anxiety · Depression · Grief · Relationship Issues · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Lauren Maher

LMFT, C-IAYT

Licensed In:
California, Florida
“I work with artists, creatives, and high achieving individuals who are experiencing anxiety, trauma, PTSD, narcissistic abuse, grief, and relationship issues, as well as those who are simply seeking greater self-awareness and personal growth. My clients tend to be curious, insightful people who are highly motivated to create change in their lives. However, even though they have often "done the work" in the past, they still find that their insight hasn't changed things in their day-to-day life. They may notice that they can't stop ruminating, their body stays tense, and that certain memories or situations carry an unpredictable charge that they can't shake. Trauma and anxiety don’t just live in the mind - they live in the nervous system and body. My work focuses on helping individuals process what’s been stored there so they finally feel calmer, clearer, and more like themselves again.”
Services:
Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Attachment · Burnout · Chronic Pain and Illness · Grief · Menopause & Perimenopause · Panic · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Sexual Abuse · Spirituality · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Anna Gouznova

Ember Psychotherapy Collective

LCSW

Licensed In:
Massachusetts
“Life can bring all kinds of challenges stress, anxiety, self-doubt, or relationship struggles,and you don’t have to face them alone. I work with adults using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and an attachment-based approach to help you understand how your thoughts, emotions, and relationships influence each other, and to develop practical strategies for feeling more confident, connected, and in control.”
Services:
Child Therapy, Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Adoption · Autism · Codependency · Depression · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Educational and Learning Disabilities · Grief · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Life Transitions · Older Adults & Aging · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Sexual Abuse · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Reesa Morala | Intensive Couples Therapy

Embrace Renewal Therapy

LMFT

Licensed In:
California
“You feel more like roommates than partners. You miss how things felt before the distance, resentment, and exhaustion set in. Parenting and daily life ask so much of you that there’s little time or energy left for your relationship—or yourself. That’s why I offer Intensive Couples Therapy—a focused, accelerated approach that helps you experience meaningful change faster. Instead of months of weekly sessions, intensives give you uninterrupted time to rebuild connection, repair trust, and learn to communicate in ways that bring understanding, intimacy, and closeness back into your relationship.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy
Specialties:
Attachment · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues

About Gottman Method

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What to expect

Gottman Method Couples Therapy is a structured approach to couples counseling that focuses on how partners communicate, handle conflict, respond when the other person reaches for connection, and rebuild trust over time. In online sessions, a therapist may spend early appointments getting a picture of your relationship, noticing recurring patterns, and guiding you through practical tools to slow arguments, repair after a hard moment, and strengthen day-to-day connection. People often look for this approach when they feel stuck in the same fights, want better communication, are preparing for marriage or long-term commitment, or are trying to recover from distance, resentment, or a breach of trust. If you want couples therapy that is active, organized, and skill-based, Gottman Method may be worth exploring.

How to choose a therapist

Look for a therapist who clearly works with couples and explains how Gottman Method is used in telehealth sessions. Some profiles mention formal Gottman Method training, while others describe Gottman-informed work within a broader couples approach. Think about pace, too: do you want weekly skill-building, support after a recent rupture, or premarital work with a clear roadmap? Compare profiles for experience with issues like recurring conflict, emotional distance, trust repair, parenting stress, or life transitions. Pay attention to communication style as well. The right fit often feels balanced, practical, and nonjudgmental. Before booking, ask how online sessions are run, whether partners can join from different locations, and what the first few appointments usually look like.

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Questions about this approach

How do I use this page to find an online therapist who offers Gottman Method?

Start with the state filter for the state or states where you will be physically located during sessions. Then narrow results by service type, insurance, language, therapy type, and any other filters that matter to you. Read profiles for mentions of Gottman Method, couples counseling, relationship issues, premarital work, or marriage counseling. Compare a few providers, note who seems to fit your goals, and reach out to ask practical questions before booking.

What should I ask before booking?

Ask how the therapist uses Gottman Method in online work, what the first few sessions look like, and whether the process is more structured or more flexible. You can also ask whether they work with couples at your stage of relationship, how they handle high conflict, whether they use assessments or between-session exercises, and whether both partners can attend from different locations if needed.

Does my therapist have to be licensed in my state, and what happens if I travel out of state?

Usually, yes. In most cases, your therapist needs to be licensed in the state where you are physically located during the session, not just the state where you live. If you travel, move between states, or you and your partner join from different places, ask about this before scheduling. If you need more flexibility, it may help to find a therapist licensed in multiple states.

Can Gottman Method be done virtually through telehealth therapy?

Yes. Gottman Method can often translate well to telehealth because the therapist is still watching how you and your partner communicate, interrupt, repair, shut down, or reconnect in real time. Online sessions may include structured questions, guided conversations, and practical exercises to use between appointments. Before you book, ask whether both partners can join from separate devices or different locations and how the therapist handles privacy and conflict online.

Who is Gottman Method best for?

Gottman Method is often a good fit for dating, engaged, married, or long-term partners who want practical help with recurring arguments, communication problems, emotional distance, trust repair after a rupture, or premarital support. It often appeals to people who like a clear, skills-based approach instead of only open-ended talking. It usually works best when both partners are willing to participate, look at patterns honestly, and practice new ways of responding between sessions.

Do Gottman Method therapists need special certification or training?

Some therapists complete formal Gottman Method Couples Therapy trainings, and a smaller group go on to complete the full certification track. Others may describe their work as Gottman-informed and blend those tools with broader couples therapy. Profiles may use different wording, so focus on whether the therapist regularly works with couples, explains how they use the approach online, and seems like a strong fit for your goals.

Does insurance cover online Gottman Method therapy, and how does payment usually work?

Coverage varies by plan and provider. Some therapists are in-network, some are out-of-network, and some are private pay only. Couples therapy coverage can be more complicated than individual therapy, so ask how sessions are billed, what the fee is, whether a superbill is available, and what your out-of-pocket cost may be. Checking this before the first appointment can save you stress later.

When is online Gottman Method therapy not the right choice?

Online Gottman Method therapy may not be the best fit during an immediate crisis, when emergency support is needed, when a higher level of care is required, or when you do not have a private space or reliable internet connection. It may also be a poor fit if joint sessions do not feel safe. If you are in immediate danger or need urgent help, contact local emergency services or call or text 988 right away.

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