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Sheila Trabelsi

Path to Growth Therapy

LPC LAC

Licensed In:
Colorado, Washington
“You might be a high achiever, perfectionist, or executive who appears successful but feels anxious, overwhelmed, or disconnected. As an executive, you may be navigating a new role, struggling to connect with your team, or noticing gaps that affect leadership and balance. You could be a helper or professional carrying so much for others that you’ve lost connection with yourself. Perhaps you’re feeling stuck, in grief or trauma, or seeking deeper connection in a partnership, clarity on next steps, or tools to manage anxiety and obsessive thoughts. No matter your path, you’re ready to reclaim balance, deepen connection, and move forward with clarity, resilience, and purpose in life, work, and relationships.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · Anxiety · Attachment · Executive Coaching · Grief · Immigrant & Refugee Mental Health · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Amy Lemberger

The LOCI Center

LMFT

Licensed In:
Arizona, Wisconsin
“I offer couples therapy and individual therapy for partners who want to get to the root of the issue, and finally feel more connected, valued, and understood. Ever wonder why the same issues keep coming up? Or your attempts to resolve the issues don't stick? I help couples break free of negative cycles, and feel more confident and secure in their relationship. Relationship health looks different at each phase of your life, and is impacted by the events and people around you. I will look at the entire system to identify where things feel stuck, and provide support for both individual and relationship growth. I am trained and informed in the complex nature of relationship challenges and use several research based methods to approach your treatment.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Brittany Webb

Better Minds Counseling & Services

LPC, LCPC, CCATP

Licensed In:
Delaware, Florida, Maryland, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Virginia
“At Better Minds Counseling & Services, we provide therapy for adults navigating anxiety, OCD, trauma, depression, ADHD, chronic pain, and relationship challenges. Our therapists specialize in working with high-functioning individuals, overachievers, and those feeling stuck in cycles of overthinking or self-doubt. We are an LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy practice and support clients across Pennsylvania and beyond through virtual therapy. Whether you're dealing with intrusive thoughts, panic, burnout, or life transitions, our team offers personalized, evidence-based care tailored to your needs.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anger Management · Anxiety · Bipolar Disorder · Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs) · Burnout · Chronic Pain and Illness · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Domestic Abuse · Gender Identity · Men’s Mental Health · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Panic · Perfectionism · Phobias · Relationship Issues · Sexual Abuse · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Courtney Stauffer

Pivotal View LLC

LAMFT

Licensed In:
Pennsylvania
“Relationships can be one of the greatest sources of joy in our lives—but they can also leave us feeling disconnected, misunderstood, or stuck. I work with couples and individuals navigating mismatched sex drives, communication challenges, intimacy concerns, anxiety, relational stress, and life transitions. Together, we explore the patterns keeping you stuck and build healthier ways of connecting with yourself and others. I provide affirming, nonjudgmental care for clients in polyamorous, ethically non-monogamous, open, kink, and BDSM relationships, as well as LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples. Whether you're rebuilding trust, exploring changing sexual needs, or strengthening your relationship, therapy is tailored to your unique goals—not someone else's expectations. Above all, I strive to create a warm, collaborative space where you feel genuinely seen, understood, and supported as you build the relationships and life you want.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Sex Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anxiety · Attachment · Burnout · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Gender Identity · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Life Transitions · Menopause & Perimenopause · Relationship Issues · Women’s Mental Health
Masha Sorkin

Masha Sorkin & Associates

LICSW/LCSW

Licensed In:
California, Connecticut, Florida, Illinois, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Washington, DC
“I work with adults for individual and couples therapy. My passion is to work with people on issues surrounding all stages of relationships; from seeking a relationship and dating, break ups, premarital/engagement, marriage, parenthood and beyond. I work with individuals and couples struggling in the areas of communication, intimacy, connection, infertility, infidelity, value differences, in law issues, parenting, existential crises as well as any other area impacting their ability to live a high quality of life. I also have a passion for working with people with high functioning anxiety as well as other forms of anxiety.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Sex Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Attachment · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Divorce · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Life Transitions · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Panic · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Perfectionism · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Stefan Baumgartner

APCC, LAPC, NCC

Licensed In:
California, Massachusetts, Pennsylvania
“Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck on auto-pilot, and unsure of what to do? You don’t have to figure it out alone. I help people get unstuck by untangling trauma, exploring identity and values, and moving toward a more grounded life. Clients tell me our sessions feel like a “golden hour” in their day: a calm, compassionate pause that lets warm light shine upon life’s shadows. I am queer and am passionate about working with LGBTQ+ individuals and couples/relationships. My work is centered in liberation, providing a space that encourages expression, empowerment, and choice.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anxiety · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Gender Identity · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD
Vanessa Claire Soleil

Vanessa S Counseling PLLC

LMHC-D, LCMHC, NCC

Licensed In:
New York, North Carolina
“I tend to work best with clients who: Experience anxiety, trauma, OCD, or chronic stress that keeps them stuck in overthinking or avoidance Want practical tools to manage emotions rather than therapy that is only exploratory Are open to being gently challenged and questioning unhelpful assumptions Struggle with avoidance, perfectionism, or fear of making mistakes Feel emotionally overwhelmed but want to build confidence, resilience, and follow-through Are interested in values-based living, even when it means tolerating discomfort Want therapy that emphasizes skill-building, accountability, and real-world change Appreciate nuance and are willing to sit with uncertainty rather than seeking absolute answers Are motivated to practice skills between sessions and apply therapy to daily life”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Candice Smith

InnerConnect Counseling

LPC

Licensed In:
Arizona
“Teens 16+, Adults, Individuals, Couples”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Dr. Cheri Timko, Ph.D., LPC

Couples Counseling Center

PhD, LPC, CST, GCT, ALPS

Licensed In:
Florida, Maine, Maryland, Ohio, South Carolina, West Virginia
“Many couples come to therapy worried about the future of their relationship. They describe their frustrated with misunderstandings and disagreements that leave them feeling disconnected, hurt, and lonely in the relationship. In therapy, we slow down difficult conversations to identify triggers, understand what each partner is really longing for, jointly problem solve, and connect through differences. I specialize in working with couples struggling with miscommunications, desire discrepancy, affair recovery, disconnection, neurodiversity, life transitions, and relationship improvement. The work I do is tailored to professional and entrepreneur couples who balance busy schedules and intense personal, work, and home demands.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Sex Therapy
Specialties:
Autism · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Highly Sensitive People (HSP) · Life Transitions · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues
Jennifer McAdams

Jennifer McAdams, Ph.D., PLLC

PhD Psychologist

Licensed In:
Alabama, Alaska, Arizona, Arkansas, Colorado, Connecticut, DC, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, DC, West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
“I work with questioning or late identified "high masking" Autistic and/or ADHDer adult clients in Texas and most states in the US via online individual, couples, & group therapy, from a strengths-based and neurodivergent affirming approach. I also specialize in helping therapists and those who have experienced narcissistic abuse.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Sex Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anxiety · Attachment · Autism · Burnout · Depression · Highly Sensitive People (HSP) · Life Transitions · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Panic · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Women’s Mental Health
Dr. Shelley Sommerfeldt

Loving Roots Project

Licensed Psychologist

Licensed In:
Alabama, Alaska, Arizona, Arkansas, Colorado, Connecticut, DC, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, DC, West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
“I work with adults and couples who are feeling stuck, disconnected, overwhelmed, or uncertain how to move forward. Many of my clients are navigating relationship challenges, communication difficulties, life transitions, anxiety, stress, self-esteem concerns, or the emotional impact of past experiences. Some individuals come to therapy feeling frustrated by repeating the same patterns in their relationships, while others seek greater self-awareness, emotional resilience, or a stronger sense of purpose. Whether you are struggling individually or as a couple, I provide a supportive space where you can gain a deeper understanding of yourself, achieve clarity, and create meaningful change.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · Anger Management · Anxiety · Attachment · Codependency · Depression · Grief · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Life Transitions · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Substance Use · Women’s Mental Health
Quincy Hock

Transformative Intimacy LLC

LMFT

Licensed In:
Connecticut, Massachusetts, New Hampshire
“I work primarily with couples and other relational units (triads, families, etc) as well as individuals often dealing with relationship issues. I have experience supporting couples navigating infidelity, high conflict, infertility/family planning and parenting, substance abuse, and mental health issues.”
Services:
Clinical Supervision, Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · Anxiety · Autism · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Substance Use

About Gottman Method

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What to expect

Gottman Method Couples Therapy is a structured approach to couples counseling that focuses on how partners communicate, handle conflict, respond when the other person reaches for connection, and rebuild trust over time. In online sessions, a therapist may spend early appointments getting a picture of your relationship, noticing recurring patterns, and guiding you through practical tools to slow arguments, repair after a hard moment, and strengthen day-to-day connection. People often look for this approach when they feel stuck in the same fights, want better communication, are preparing for marriage or long-term commitment, or are trying to recover from distance, resentment, or a breach of trust. If you want couples therapy that is active, organized, and skill-based, Gottman Method may be worth exploring.

How to choose a therapist

Look for a therapist who clearly works with couples and explains how Gottman Method is used in telehealth sessions. Some profiles mention formal Gottman Method training, while others describe Gottman-informed work within a broader couples approach. Think about pace, too: do you want weekly skill-building, support after a recent rupture, or premarital work with a clear roadmap? Compare profiles for experience with issues like recurring conflict, emotional distance, trust repair, parenting stress, or life transitions. Pay attention to communication style as well. The right fit often feels balanced, practical, and nonjudgmental. Before booking, ask how online sessions are run, whether partners can join from different locations, and what the first few appointments usually look like.

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Questions about this approach

How do I use this page to find an online therapist who offers Gottman Method?

Start with the state filter for the state or states where you will be physically located during sessions. Then narrow results by service type, insurance, language, therapy type, and any other filters that matter to you. Read profiles for mentions of Gottman Method, couples counseling, relationship issues, premarital work, or marriage counseling. Compare a few providers, note who seems to fit your goals, and reach out to ask practical questions before booking.

What should I ask before booking?

Ask how the therapist uses Gottman Method in online work, what the first few sessions look like, and whether the process is more structured or more flexible. You can also ask whether they work with couples at your stage of relationship, how they handle high conflict, whether they use assessments or between-session exercises, and whether both partners can attend from different locations if needed.

Does my therapist have to be licensed in my state, and what happens if I travel out of state?

Usually, yes. In most cases, your therapist needs to be licensed in the state where you are physically located during the session, not just the state where you live. If you travel, move between states, or you and your partner join from different places, ask about this before scheduling. If you need more flexibility, it may help to find a therapist licensed in multiple states.

Can Gottman Method be done virtually through telehealth therapy?

Yes. Gottman Method can often translate well to telehealth because the therapist is still watching how you and your partner communicate, interrupt, repair, shut down, or reconnect in real time. Online sessions may include structured questions, guided conversations, and practical exercises to use between appointments. Before you book, ask whether both partners can join from separate devices or different locations and how the therapist handles privacy and conflict online.

Who is Gottman Method best for?

Gottman Method is often a good fit for dating, engaged, married, or long-term partners who want practical help with recurring arguments, communication problems, emotional distance, trust repair after a rupture, or premarital support. It often appeals to people who like a clear, skills-based approach instead of only open-ended talking. It usually works best when both partners are willing to participate, look at patterns honestly, and practice new ways of responding between sessions.

Do Gottman Method therapists need special certification or training?

Some therapists complete formal Gottman Method Couples Therapy trainings, and a smaller group go on to complete the full certification track. Others may describe their work as Gottman-informed and blend those tools with broader couples therapy. Profiles may use different wording, so focus on whether the therapist regularly works with couples, explains how they use the approach online, and seems like a strong fit for your goals.

Does insurance cover online Gottman Method therapy, and how does payment usually work?

Coverage varies by plan and provider. Some therapists are in-network, some are out-of-network, and some are private pay only. Couples therapy coverage can be more complicated than individual therapy, so ask how sessions are billed, what the fee is, whether a superbill is available, and what your out-of-pocket cost may be. Checking this before the first appointment can save you stress later.

When is online Gottman Method therapy not the right choice?

Online Gottman Method therapy may not be the best fit during an immediate crisis, when emergency support is needed, when a higher level of care is required, or when you do not have a private space or reliable internet connection. It may also be a poor fit if joint sessions do not feel safe. If you are in immediate danger or need urgent help, contact local emergency services or call or text 988 right away.

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