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Isabel Ortiz-Cheek

Wellspring Counseling Center

M.S., LPC-C

Licensed In:
Oklahoma
“I am passionate about inclusivity, especially in working with individuals from a variety of backgrounds such as those who are neurodivergent, LGBTQ+, minority status, and so much more. Therapy is not an easy process, and it can be difficult to realize that you are struggling in the first place. However, if you are feeling stuck, unsure, or dealing with unexpected change, I am here to remind you it does not have to be your forever. By working with you to explore both your history and your present to reveal the root of the issues you face, I will work with you to empower you with confidence, resiliency, courage, and hope. My background in mental health has focused on working with college students as well as those in a time of transition in their lives. I often see those with anxiety, depression, gender dysphoria, religious trauma, and many other presenting concerns. I deeply appreciate the variety and uniqueness you bring to the therapy space and will meet you where you are!”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anxiety · Burnout · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Gender Identity · Grief · Life Transitions · Mood Disorders · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Self-Harming · Suicidal Ideation · Trauma & PTSD
Erin Pritchard, LPCC-S, Certified EMDR Therapist

Sea Glass Counseling and Consultation

LPCC-S, Certified EMDR Therapist & Consultant

Licensed In:
Ohio
“I work with individuals and couples seeking support with anxiety, stress, trauma, and OCD; coping with relationship concerns (like sharing the mental load, communication issues, etc); healing from shame-based messaging about sexuality; and improving sexual functioning concerns (painful sex, low desire, values realignment, etc). As a true specialist, I keep my practice small & focused, to give you the best possible care for your emotional & relational wellbeing. Here's what I can help with: Anxiety & Stress Burnout & Work Stress Christian Sexual Concerns Couples Communication & Conflict Resolution Infidelity & Betrayal Trauma Low Sexual Desire & Intimacy Concerns Mental Load Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) Orgasm Difficulty Purity Culture Deconstruction & Recovery Relationship Concerns Trauma & Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) Vaginismus & Pelvic Pain”
Services:
Clinical Supervision, Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Sex Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Chronic Pain and Illness · Faith-Based Care · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Life Transitions · Menopause & Perimenopause · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Spiritual Abuse · Spirituality · Trauma & PTSD
Brianda Teterukov

AZ Therapy Quest LLC

LPC 20112, 22133 LPCC

Licensed In:
Arizona, California, Texas, Washington
“Are you searching for childhood trauma therapy in Phoenix, AZ, because you’re tired of feeling lonely and repeating toxic relationship patterns? Many people reach out when they realize that success has not healed the loneliness, guilt, or self-doubt left from growing up with emotionally immature parents. You may have gone no contact or feel torn about setting boundaries. You might silence your feelings to avoid conflict or worry that being honest will hurt someone else. Even with a stable life, something still feels missing. When you had to take care of others’ emotions as a child, you learned to disconnect from your own. Those patterns often carry into adulthood, showing up as anxiety, exhaustion, and the quiet belief that you are never enough. In therapy, we uncover how your parents’ emotional immaturity shaped your early years so you can reclaim your voice and sense of self now.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Attachment · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Depression · Dissociative Disorders · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Trauma & PTSD
Juliana Friedman

Juliana Friedman Therapy

AMFT

Licensed In:
California
“Are you a couple trying to find more effective ways to communicate and repair? Do you struggle with finding a middle ground with so many differences keeping you apart? Are you an individual coping with grief or another type of loss or life change? Maybe you’ve lost a loved one, pet, or part of yourself and life just doesn’t feel the same anymore. Maybe you are needing support around perinatal mental health or starting a family. Maybe you are coping with midlife issues like aging parents, empty nest, divorce, health issues, or menopause that make you feel like you don’t know yourself anymore. Perhaps you’re just out of school or starting a career and trying to make sense of your purpose. I have the clinical training and lived experience to help.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Aging · Anxiety · Attachment · Burnout · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Dementia · Depression · Divorce · Grief · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Life Transitions · Perfectionism · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Spirituality · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Mary Troedson

Azalea Counseling PLLC

LMFT

Licensed In:
New Mexico, North Carolina
“I work with clients ages 15+ including individuals and couples. I enjoy supporting individuals who are struggling with the lasting affects of traumas in their lives as well as anxiety. I have experience working with couples and individuals navigating relationship disconnect, grief, life transitions, and increases in symptoms of anxiety and depression. Please reach out if you would like to know more about my approach!”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Attachment · Depression · Divorce · Grief · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Trauma & PTSD
Jill Kaufman

Princeton Counseling and Parenting Center

LCSW

Licensed In:
New Jersey
“If you’re feeling stuck in your relationship, questioning whether to stay or leave, or already navigating the challenges of divorce, you’re not alone. I work with individuals and couples who are trying to make sense of their next steps, whether that means repairing a marriage, separating thoughtfully, or learning how to co-parent in a healthier way. You may feel overwhelmed, uncertain, or emotionally exhausted, and unsure who to trust or what to do next. Together, we create clarity so you can move forward with greater confidence, less conflict, and a stronger sense of direction for yourself and your family.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy
Specialties:
Divorce · Life Transitions · Relationship Issues · Women’s Mental Health
Nicola Irving

Licensed Professional Counselor

LPC

Licensed In:
Oregon, Virginia, Washington
“You may deeply care for your partner, but your relationship no longer feels the same. You’re ready to move beyond surface-level solutions and create a relationship built on emotional security, intimacy, and lasting satisfaction.”
Services:
Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Sex Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anxiety · Codependency · Divorce · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Insomnia & Sleep Disorders · Relationship Issues · Women’s Mental Health
Shana Smith

1st Degree of Change

LCSW, LICSW

Licensed In:
Arizona, Florida, Indiana, Massachusetts
“I provide online therapy for teens and adults in Arizona, Florida, Indiana, and Massachusetts who are dealing with anxiety, trauma, PTSD/CPTSD, complex trauma, dissociation, ADHD, Autism, and neurodivergence. If you are experiencing anxiety or have experienced trauma, I may be your therapist. I work with clients whose trauma ranges from a car accident or a single painful event to complex trauma, PTSD, CPTSD, and dissociation. I also work with people whose anxiety shows up in different ways, from feeling overwhelmed by a new stage of life to struggling to leave the house because anxiety feels too loud and too heavy. I meet clients where they are, but I also help them move forward. Therapy with me is not stiff, robotic, or one-size-fits-all. My clients often appreciate that they can jump topics, use sarcasm, laugh, cry, or say the messy thing out loud, and I can still help bring us back to what matters. Whether you are neurodivergent or not, if you want a therapist who is warm, direct, and able to hold both humor and hard things, we may be a good fit.”
Services:
Individual Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anxiety · Autism · Life Transitions · Trauma & PTSD
Michael G Holler

Michael G Holler Counseling Services

LMHC

Licensed In:
Florida
“Individual, adolescent, family, couples”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Teen Therapy, Testing and Evaluations
Specialties:
ADHD · Bipolar Disorder · Codependency · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Educational and Learning Disabilities · Grief · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Panic · Perfectionism · Personality Disorders · Relationship Issues · Sexual Abuse · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Shane Knox, LMFT

Shane Knox, LMFT

LMFT

Licensed In:
Oregon
“I work with adults of all ages, genders, and identities. Some identities that I especially focus on are people in multicultural/mixed race relationships or families, men (often seeking therapy for the first time), people who perform for a living (performing arts, athletes). I work with people on anxiety/OCD, relationship challenges, low self-worth, chronic illness burnout, sexual issues, childhood trauma, ADHD, spiritual issues, religious trauma, parenting, addiction, & men's issues.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · ADHD · Anxiety · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Divorce · Grief · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Men’s Mental Health · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Panic · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Spiritual Abuse · Spirituality · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD
Amber Jagt

Ambient Family Counseling

LMFT Associate

Licensed In:
Texas
“You might be dealing with anxiety and constant racing thoughts, or feeling overwhelmed like you can’t quite get your head above water. Some days, even getting out of bed can feel like a challenge. Maybe you’re feeling stuck, navigating a difficult life transition, or struggling to communicate and connect with your partner or family members. If any of this sounds familiar, you’re not alone, and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself. Many of my clients struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, relationship challenges, depression, or major life changes. I work with people of all ages, but I specialize in working with children, teens, young adults, and families struggling with anxiety, family conflict, and self-esteem.”
Services:
Child Therapy, Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Attachment · Chronic Pain and Illness · Depression · Grief · Life Transitions · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem
Destinee Barker, LCSW, PMH-C

Bloom Within Counseling PLLC

LCSW

Licensed In:
Tennessee, Texas
“I work with individuals across Tennessee navigating pregnancy, postpartum, and early parenthood, including anxiety, depression, mood changes, identity shifts, and adjustment to new roles. I also work with couples seeking support with communication, connection, and life transitions, as well as teens who need a safe, affirming space to explore emotions, stress, and relationships. I provide virtual, evidence-based, compassionate perinatal mental health care. I accept Cigna, Aetna, and CHAMPVA, with BCBS and Tricare pending, and I am currently accepting new clients.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Attachment · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Depression · Divorce · Gender Identity · Grief · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Men’s Mental Health · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health

About Gottman Method

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What to expect

Gottman Method Couples Therapy is a structured approach to couples counseling that focuses on how partners communicate, handle conflict, respond when the other person reaches for connection, and rebuild trust over time. In online sessions, a therapist may spend early appointments getting a picture of your relationship, noticing recurring patterns, and guiding you through practical tools to slow arguments, repair after a hard moment, and strengthen day-to-day connection. People often look for this approach when they feel stuck in the same fights, want better communication, are preparing for marriage or long-term commitment, or are trying to recover from distance, resentment, or a breach of trust. If you want couples therapy that is active, organized, and skill-based, Gottman Method may be worth exploring.

How to choose a therapist

Look for a therapist who clearly works with couples and explains how Gottman Method is used in telehealth sessions. Some profiles mention formal Gottman Method training, while others describe Gottman-informed work within a broader couples approach. Think about pace, too: do you want weekly skill-building, support after a recent rupture, or premarital work with a clear roadmap? Compare profiles for experience with issues like recurring conflict, emotional distance, trust repair, parenting stress, or life transitions. Pay attention to communication style as well. The right fit often feels balanced, practical, and nonjudgmental. Before booking, ask how online sessions are run, whether partners can join from different locations, and what the first few appointments usually look like.

Before you book

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  • Check that the provider can work with you in each state where you will attend sessions.

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Questions about this approach

How do I use this page to find an online therapist who offers Gottman Method?

Start with the state filter for the state or states where you will be physically located during sessions. Then narrow results by service type, insurance, language, therapy type, and any other filters that matter to you. Read profiles for mentions of Gottman Method, couples counseling, relationship issues, premarital work, or marriage counseling. Compare a few providers, note who seems to fit your goals, and reach out to ask practical questions before booking.

What should I ask before booking?

Ask how the therapist uses Gottman Method in online work, what the first few sessions look like, and whether the process is more structured or more flexible. You can also ask whether they work with couples at your stage of relationship, how they handle high conflict, whether they use assessments or between-session exercises, and whether both partners can attend from different locations if needed.

Does my therapist have to be licensed in my state, and what happens if I travel out of state?

Usually, yes. In most cases, your therapist needs to be licensed in the state where you are physically located during the session, not just the state where you live. If you travel, move between states, or you and your partner join from different places, ask about this before scheduling. If you need more flexibility, it may help to find a therapist licensed in multiple states.

Can Gottman Method be done virtually through telehealth therapy?

Yes. Gottman Method can often translate well to telehealth because the therapist is still watching how you and your partner communicate, interrupt, repair, shut down, or reconnect in real time. Online sessions may include structured questions, guided conversations, and practical exercises to use between appointments. Before you book, ask whether both partners can join from separate devices or different locations and how the therapist handles privacy and conflict online.

Who is Gottman Method best for?

Gottman Method is often a good fit for dating, engaged, married, or long-term partners who want practical help with recurring arguments, communication problems, emotional distance, trust repair after a rupture, or premarital support. It often appeals to people who like a clear, skills-based approach instead of only open-ended talking. It usually works best when both partners are willing to participate, look at patterns honestly, and practice new ways of responding between sessions.

Do Gottman Method therapists need special certification or training?

Some therapists complete formal Gottman Method Couples Therapy trainings, and a smaller group go on to complete the full certification track. Others may describe their work as Gottman-informed and blend those tools with broader couples therapy. Profiles may use different wording, so focus on whether the therapist regularly works with couples, explains how they use the approach online, and seems like a strong fit for your goals.

Does insurance cover online Gottman Method therapy, and how does payment usually work?

Coverage varies by plan and provider. Some therapists are in-network, some are out-of-network, and some are private pay only. Couples therapy coverage can be more complicated than individual therapy, so ask how sessions are billed, what the fee is, whether a superbill is available, and what your out-of-pocket cost may be. Checking this before the first appointment can save you stress later.

When is online Gottman Method therapy not the right choice?

Online Gottman Method therapy may not be the best fit during an immediate crisis, when emergency support is needed, when a higher level of care is required, or when you do not have a private space or reliable internet connection. It may also be a poor fit if joint sessions do not feel safe. If you are in immediate danger or need urgent help, contact local emergency services or call or text 988 right away.

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