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Dr. Heather Browne, PsyD, LMFT

Dr. Heather Browne, PsyD, LMFT

PsyD, LMFT

Licensed In:
California, Florida
“Couples and individuals, 16 and older specializing in communication, connection, intimacy, life transitions, grief and loss, reparenting, depression, anxiety, inner child”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy
Specialties:
Adoption · Aging · Anxiety · Attachment · Behavioral Issues · Burnout · Cancer · Career Counseling · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Depression · Divorce · Gender Identity · Grief · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Life Transitions · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Perfectionism · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Spirituality · Weight Loss · Women’s Mental Health
Luc Boudreau

Clutch Psychotherapy LLC

PCA, LMHCA, NCC

Licensed In:
Oregon, Washington
“You may look like you’re doing fine on the outside while quietly feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected on the inside. Perhaps you’re successful but exhausted from constantly pushing yourself, caught in patterns you can’t seem to break, or struggling with anxiety, shame, self-doubt, perfectionism, or relationship challenges. I specialize in helping adults who are experiencing the lasting effects of trauma and adverse childhood experiences. I also work with couples who want to rebuild trust, improve communication, deepen their connection, or break free from patterns that keep them stuck.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Anger Management · Anxiety · Attachment · Behavioral Issues · Bipolar Disorder · Codependency · Depression · Dissociative Disorders · Divorce · Executive Coaching · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Mood Disorders · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Older Adults & Aging · Panic · Perfectionism · Personality Disorders · Phobias · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Spiritual Abuse · Trauma & PTSD
Emily DiPalma

Little Blue Sky Wellness

LMFT

Licensed In:
Massachusetts, Rhode Island
“Many of the couples I work with feel stuck in patterns they can’t quite shift, having the same arguments on repeat, feeling emotionally out of sync, or carrying the invisible labor of maintaining a shared life while sensing a growing distance. You may notice that the intimacy, ease, or sense of “us” that you once had feels harder to access lately, or that work, family, and responsibilities leave little space for real connection. If you’ve been wondering where that closeness has gone, you are far from alone. I specialize in helping couples reconnect, rebuild trust, and find their way back to each other.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Sex Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Attachment · Burnout · Depression · Divorce · Eating Disorders · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Life Transitions · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem
Oluwatoyin Ruth Ajogbeje

Adullam Counseling and Trauma care

LCSW

Licensed In:
Michigan, Tennessee
“I specialize in supporting individuals navigating life stressors such as trauma, anxiety, depression, sexual abuse, grief, life transitions, relationship challenges, and bipolar disorder. I also work with couples facing communication difficulties, betrayal, addiction, or mental health challenges. My approach focuses on helping individuals and couples navigate life’s challenges, rebuild trust, and heal in a supportive, compassionate space.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Attachment · Autism · Depression · Dissociative Disorders · Domestic Abuse · Grief · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Suicidal Ideation · Trauma & PTSD
Licensed In:
California
“Parents, individuals, children age 6-12”
Services:
Child Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Teen Therapy, Testing and Evaluations
Specialties:
Addiction · ADHD · Anger Management · Anxiety · Autism · Behavioral Issues · Educational and Learning Disabilities · Immigrant & Refugee Mental Health · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Relationship Issues · Substance Use
Coley Woodward

Psyberspace Center for Psychedelic Therapy

LPCC, LPC, LMHC

Licensed In:
California, Georgia, New Jersey, New York
“You've done the work. Read the books. Tried the breathing. Sat in years of therapy. And still — something feels stuck. I work with people just like you. High-achievers who look fine on paper but feel exhausted underneath. Entrepreneurs carrying invisible weight. Parents running on empty. Veterans and first responders running from memories they can't outrun. Couples caught in the same fight for the tenth year. You're not broken. You're burned out, traumatized, or stuck in patterns that won't budge — and traditional approaches haven't touched the root. If you've been told you're "too much" or "not enough," I see you. If you're ready for something deeper than talk — EMDR, KAP, somatic work — let's talk.”
Services:
Child Therapy, Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP), Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · Anger Management · Anxiety · Behavioral Issues · Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs) · Depression · Eating Disorders · Grief · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Perfectionism · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD
Courtney Kirschten

Surviving to Thriving Services PLLC

LPC, NCC

Licensed In:
Colorado
“I work with adults navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, burnout, relationship challenges, people-pleasing, emotional overwhelm, and low self-esteem. Many of my clients are highly sensitive, self-aware, and deeply caring people who feel exhausted from carrying so much for others. Together, we focus on building confidence, emotional resilience, healthier boundaries, self-understanding, and lasting change in both internal experiences and daily life.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Behavioral Issues · Body Dysmorphia · Codependency · Depression · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Eating Disorders · Executive Coaching · Faith-Based Care · Gender Identity · Men’s Mental Health · Older Adults & Aging · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Self-Harming · Sexual Abuse · Spiritual Abuse · Spirituality · Trauma & PTSD · Weight Loss · Women’s Mental Health
Thaimi Fina

Therapy with Thaimi, LLC

LMHC

Licensed In:
Florida
“Most commonly I work with women, LGBTQ+ folks, BIPOC clients, Latinx, immigrants and first generation Americans, veterans, neurodivergent individuals, teens, college students, couples, and high-achieving professionals. My clients are often struggling with not feeling good enough about themselves and comparing themselves to others. They might struggle with body image, feel frustrated with their own patterns of behavior, or experience ongoing difficulties in their relationships. They often find themselves stuck in the same cycles. They might have insight but can’t seem to change their behavior.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Attachment · Autism · Body Dysmorphia · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Eating Disorders · Gender Identity · Grief · Highly Sensitive People (HSP) · Immigrant & Refugee Mental Health · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Life Transitions · Menopause & Perimenopause · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Older Adults & Aging · Panic · Perfectionism · Personality Disorders · Phobias · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Self-Harming · Sexual Abuse · Suicidal Ideation · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Gwen Child

Ember Psychotherapy Collective

LICSW

Licensed In:
Colorado, Massachusetts
“As a therapist, I specialize in supporting young adults and couples as they navigate life’s transitions, relationships, and challenges. My client-centered approach explores root causes while building practical coping skills for daily life. Using a trauma-informed lens, I integrate yoga-based mindfulness and somatic practices to support nervous system regulation and deeper healing. Psychodynamic and narrative therapy help us understand how your worldview was shaped and how it influences your present. We may also incorporate IFS based parts work to gently explore and understand the different parts of your inner experience. With training in the Gottman Method, I help couples strengthen communication, connection, and trust. Together we focus on deepening friendship while managing the practical demands of partnership. You’ll learn tools for healthy conflict resolution and collaboration, remembering you are on the same team.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · ADHD · Anxiety · Bipolar Disorder · Career Counseling · Codependency · Depression · Divorce · Grief · Life Transitions · Mood Disorders · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD
Licensed In:
Florida, New York
“-Experienced in treating: Trauma, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship issues, ADHD, OCD, Transitions in life, Self-identity/ Self-Esteem Issues and more. -Clients range across all ages, from children to geriatric. I offer both Individual and Couples Counseling. Reviews: https://www.zocdoc.com/professional/samya-sammy-touma-lcsw-431236 -Because of my medical school experience in neurology, pharmacology, and psychiatry, patients have benefited tremendously. -In network with Northwell, and offering a lower than average sliding scale (185 and if absolutely needed, 135-155 and similar ranges). -Virtual, and if absolutely needed, near Garden City, Melville, Manhasset, and Hicksville (if absolutely needed, closer to the Hamptons in Bohemia).”
Services:
Child Therapy, Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Sex Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Aging · Anger Management · Anxiety · Attachment · Autism · Behavioral Issues · Burnout · Cancer · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Disability · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Educational and Learning Disabilities · Faith-Based Care · Gender Identity · Grief · Highly Sensitive People (HSP) · Immigrant & Refugee Mental Health · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Insomnia & Sleep Disorders · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Menopause & Perimenopause · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Older Adults & Aging · Panic · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Perfectionism · Personality Disorders · Phobias · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Spiritual Abuse · Spirituality · Trauma & PTSD · Weight Loss · Women’s Mental Health
Michaela Conley

Spot on Relationships

LMFT

Licensed In:
Arizona, Colorado, Florida, Idaho, Virginia
“Couples and individuals seeking systemic relationship therapy”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Sex Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Attachment · Behavioral Issues · Codependency · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Disability · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Life Transitions · Menopause & Perimenopause · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Trauma & PTSD
Jessica Morillo

Sessions with Jess

LCSW, CST

Licensed In:
Connecticut, Florida, New York
“I am an AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist with a history of specialization in trauma and addiction therapy. I primarily work with two populations: individuals who want to change how they show up in the realm of intimacy/relationships and with couples for integrative sex and couples therapy. I provide help for relationship-related concerns including but not limited to: desire discrepancy (or hypo- or hyper-active libido); recovery from infidelity; erotic recovery after trauma; kind-affirming care; help to develop alternative relationship structures e.g. an open or polyamorous structure. I am certified in Gottman Levels 1 & 2 and have training in Emotionally Focused Therapy.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP), Parenting Therapy, Sex Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Gender Identity · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Men’s Mental Health · Out-of-Control Sexual Behavior · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Sexual Abuse · Spiritual Abuse · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health

About Gottman Method

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What to expect

Gottman Method Couples Therapy is a structured approach to couples counseling that focuses on how partners communicate, handle conflict, respond when the other person reaches for connection, and rebuild trust over time. In online sessions, a therapist may spend early appointments getting a picture of your relationship, noticing recurring patterns, and guiding you through practical tools to slow arguments, repair after a hard moment, and strengthen day-to-day connection. People often look for this approach when they feel stuck in the same fights, want better communication, are preparing for marriage or long-term commitment, or are trying to recover from distance, resentment, or a breach of trust. If you want couples therapy that is active, organized, and skill-based, Gottman Method may be worth exploring.

How to choose a therapist

Look for a therapist who clearly works with couples and explains how Gottman Method is used in telehealth sessions. Some profiles mention formal Gottman Method training, while others describe Gottman-informed work within a broader couples approach. Think about pace, too: do you want weekly skill-building, support after a recent rupture, or premarital work with a clear roadmap? Compare profiles for experience with issues like recurring conflict, emotional distance, trust repair, parenting stress, or life transitions. Pay attention to communication style as well. The right fit often feels balanced, practical, and nonjudgmental. Before booking, ask how online sessions are run, whether partners can join from different locations, and what the first few appointments usually look like.

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Questions about this approach

How do I use this page to find an online therapist who offers Gottman Method?

Start with the state filter for the state or states where you will be physically located during sessions. Then narrow results by service type, insurance, language, therapy type, and any other filters that matter to you. Read profiles for mentions of Gottman Method, couples counseling, relationship issues, premarital work, or marriage counseling. Compare a few providers, note who seems to fit your goals, and reach out to ask practical questions before booking.

What should I ask before booking?

Ask how the therapist uses Gottman Method in online work, what the first few sessions look like, and whether the process is more structured or more flexible. You can also ask whether they work with couples at your stage of relationship, how they handle high conflict, whether they use assessments or between-session exercises, and whether both partners can attend from different locations if needed.

Does my therapist have to be licensed in my state, and what happens if I travel out of state?

Usually, yes. In most cases, your therapist needs to be licensed in the state where you are physically located during the session, not just the state where you live. If you travel, move between states, or you and your partner join from different places, ask about this before scheduling. If you need more flexibility, it may help to find a therapist licensed in multiple states.

Can Gottman Method be done virtually through telehealth therapy?

Yes. Gottman Method can often translate well to telehealth because the therapist is still watching how you and your partner communicate, interrupt, repair, shut down, or reconnect in real time. Online sessions may include structured questions, guided conversations, and practical exercises to use between appointments. Before you book, ask whether both partners can join from separate devices or different locations and how the therapist handles privacy and conflict online.

Who is Gottman Method best for?

Gottman Method is often a good fit for dating, engaged, married, or long-term partners who want practical help with recurring arguments, communication problems, emotional distance, trust repair after a rupture, or premarital support. It often appeals to people who like a clear, skills-based approach instead of only open-ended talking. It usually works best when both partners are willing to participate, look at patterns honestly, and practice new ways of responding between sessions.

Do Gottman Method therapists need special certification or training?

Some therapists complete formal Gottman Method Couples Therapy trainings, and a smaller group go on to complete the full certification track. Others may describe their work as Gottman-informed and blend those tools with broader couples therapy. Profiles may use different wording, so focus on whether the therapist regularly works with couples, explains how they use the approach online, and seems like a strong fit for your goals.

Does insurance cover online Gottman Method therapy, and how does payment usually work?

Coverage varies by plan and provider. Some therapists are in-network, some are out-of-network, and some are private pay only. Couples therapy coverage can be more complicated than individual therapy, so ask how sessions are billed, what the fee is, whether a superbill is available, and what your out-of-pocket cost may be. Checking this before the first appointment can save you stress later.

When is online Gottman Method therapy not the right choice?

Online Gottman Method therapy may not be the best fit during an immediate crisis, when emergency support is needed, when a higher level of care is required, or when you do not have a private space or reliable internet connection. It may also be a poor fit if joint sessions do not feel safe. If you are in immediate danger or need urgent help, contact local emergency services or call or text 988 right away.

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