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Brittney Ward

Holistic Journey Counseling and Consulting

LCSW

Licensed In:
Arizona, Idaho, Utah
“I am a trauma-informed therapist with specialized training in working with individuals impacted by domestic violence, sexual assault, abuse, trafficking, first responder experiences, and complex trauma. While I have experience supporting a wide range of concerns, my primary focus is helping clients process and heal from deeply impactful life events. I work with individuals across the lifespan, from childhood through adulthood, and tailor my approach to meet each client’s unique developmental and emotional needs. I am LGBTQ+ affirming and committed to providing ethical, compassionate, culturally responsive care. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by what you’ve been through, stuck in patterns that don’t make sense, or unsure how to move forward, you are not alone. Together, we can create a space where your experiences are understood, your voice is valued, and healing feels possible.”
Services:
Child Therapy, Family Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Attachment · Autism · Chronic Pain and Illness · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Domestic Abuse · Gender Identity · Grief · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Spiritual Abuse · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Amy McIntosh

Amy McIntosh Counseling

LPC

Licensed In:
Minnesota, North Dakota
“Do you find yourself asking, why can't I stop worrying what others think? Why can't I turn my thoughts off at night? Why do relationships feel disappointing? Why can’t I make decisions? Why am I always tired? I'm here to assure you, you are not a problem; you are the solution! If you are ready to address the cycles you find yourself repeating, imbalanced relationships, toxic families/work environments, struggles with dieting and body image, loss of a sense of self, people-pleasing and perfectionism: I work with adults seeking relief from anxiety and/or stress from life transitions (relationships, grief/loss, career, self-worth/identity). You will experience a non-judgmental and very down to earth (laughing, crying, and swearing freely) approach in sessions. Many of my clients report feeling better after their first session, or in the first month!”
Services:
Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Aging · Anxiety · Divorce · Grief · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues
Shelby Dwyer

Therapy with Shelby, LLC

LMHC, LCMHC, LCPC, LPC

Licensed In:
Maine, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, Wisconsin
“I specialize in helping LGBTQIA+ adults manage stress, anxiety, perfectionist tendencies; deepen and strengthen their relationships with themselves and others; reprocess past trauma to foster healing and growth; and understand more about themselves within their cultures.”
Services:
Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Attachment · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Trauma & PTSD
Stefan Baumgartner

APCC, LAPC, NCC

Licensed In:
California, Massachusetts, Pennsylvania
“Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck on auto-pilot, and unsure of what to do? You don’t have to figure it out alone. I help people get unstuck by untangling trauma, exploring identity and values, and moving toward a more grounded life. Clients tell me our sessions feel like a “golden hour” in their day: a calm, compassionate pause that lets warm light shine upon life’s shadows. I am queer and am passionate about working with LGBTQ+ individuals and couples/relationships. My work is centered in liberation, providing a space that encourages expression, empowerment, and choice.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anxiety · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Gender Identity · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD
Shane Knox, LMFT

Shane Knox, LMFT

LMFT

Licensed In:
Oregon
“I work with adults of all ages, genders, and identities. Some identities that I especially focus on are people in multicultural/mixed race relationships or families, men (often seeking therapy for the first time), people who perform for a living (performing arts, athletes). I work with people on anxiety/OCD, relationship challenges, low self-worth, chronic illness burnout, sexual issues, childhood trauma, ADHD, spiritual issues, religious trauma, parenting, addiction, & men's issues.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · ADHD · Anxiety · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Divorce · Grief · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Men’s Mental Health · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Panic · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Spiritual Abuse · Spirituality · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD
Powell Burke

The Lantern Room

LCSW

Licensed In:
California, Colorado, Florida, Georgia
“I work with adults, including LGBTQIA+ clients, who are navigating anxiety, depression, trauma histories, and patterns that feel hard to shift even when insight is present. Many clients are high-functioning on the outside but internally dealing with chronic stress, emotional overwhelm, self-criticism, or disconnection from themselves or relationships. I also work with therapists, healthcare professionals, and creative professionals who carry complex emotional loads in their work and need a place where they do not have to perform competence. A lot of the work involves people who are trying to understand longstanding relational patterns or identity-related questions in a more grounded and sustainable way.”
Services:
Individual Therapy, Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP)
Specialties:
Aging · Anxiety · Attachment · Burnout · Caregiver Support · Chronic Pain and Illness · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Disability · Divorce · End-of-Life · Gender Identity · Grief · Highly Sensitive People (HSP) · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Older Adults & Aging · Out-of-Control Sexual Behavior · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Trauma & PTSD
Viridiana Zendejas

Generaciones Counseling

LCSW

Licensed In:
Arizona, Utah
“I work with adult Latine individuals who are looking to connect to their emotional needs, better understand family history, and heal trauma wounds. As children of immigrants, childhood came with a variety of responsibilities; though many provided great skills, some continue to affect our wellbeing and adult relationships in ways that weren't anticipated. Some common challenges I work with include feeling responsible for your family's wellbeing while also navigating your own needs, trying to build a relationship where your parents can see you as an adult, setting healthy boundaries without completely cutting family out of your life, or even making sense of and healing from your childhood experiences but having a difficult time managing guilt, shame, fear, regret, anxiety, or additional emotions that come up when revisiting childhood memories.”
Services:
Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Burnout · Cancer · Codependency · Depression · Domestic Abuse · Grief · Immigrant & Refugee Mental Health · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
April Johnson

Compass Collective

M.S. LPC-Associate

Licensed In:
Texas
“The clients who work well with me are those who may be self aware, or knowledgeable about therapy techniques, but do not have the tools to make the improvements they already know they need to make. I also help my clients see things from different perspectives in order to fully understand the situations they've experienced and why they react the way they do. Clients who come to me often struggle with family dynamics, perhaps they are the scapegoat, or the helper/fixer of their family. Often my clients have experienced abuse of some sort, be it childhood, adulthood, religious, or sexual. The clients I most enjoy helping are those who struggle to feel seen, to understand why they are constantly treated poorly, and why no one seems to understand what they are feeling. These clients also often struggle with behaviors they can't seem to stop or prevent.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Sex Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anger Management · Anxiety · Attachment · Behavioral Issues · Codependency · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Disability · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Gender Identity · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Menopause & Perimenopause · Older Adults & Aging · Panic · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Spiritual Abuse · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Britt M. Carilli

Rainbow Therapy & Consulting PLLC

LCSW, LICSW

Licensed In:
Connecticut, Massachusetts
“I work with individual adults and teens (ages 15+) who are looking for a soft, welcoming place to process and heal. Folx who choose me as a therapist are tired of feeling simultaneously “not enough” and “too much,” and want to start living a life that aligns with their values-- starting with a therapy space that honors them as they are. My therapy space is open to people of all marginalized identities, and is home especially for LGBTQIA2S+, neurodivergent, Disabled, and racialized BBIA folx whose identities are most linked to systemic violence and neglect. Clients I work with typically experience complex and single-incident trauma, self-esteem, and big existential questions around identity and purpose. I largely serve folx whose trauma manifests other challenges, like depression, anxiety, self-harm, suicidal thoughts, sexual dysfunction, or substance use.”
Services:
Group Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anxiety · Autism · Burnout · Depression · Disability · Gender Identity · Grief · Highly Sensitive People (HSP) · Perfectionism · Self Esteem · Self-Harming · Substance Use · Suicidal Ideation · Trauma & PTSD
Jill Lees

Meer Soul Counseling

LCSW

Licensed In:
Colorado, Florida, Idaho, Montana, Oregon, Texas, Washington, Wyoming
“I work with millennial women experiencing grief, anxiety, or trauma.”
Services:
Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Grief · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Hunter Corey

Ember Psychotherapy Collective

LPCC

Licensed In:
Colorado, Massachusetts
“Let’s be real — the state of the world right now is heavy. As if maintaining good mental health weren’t hard enough already, right? I’m here to support with those hard day-to-day challenges, and to help you understand and shift how your past shapes the way you move through the world today. You have a story worth telling, and I want to hear it. My role is to walk beside you — offering perspective, practical tools, and space to heal. I specialize in working with trauma, grief, and anxiety, always guided by mindfulness, compassion, and a holistic perspective on healing.”
Services:
Child Therapy, Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anxiety · Bipolar Disorder · Cancer · Codependency · Depression · Grief · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Mood Disorders · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Self-Harming · Sexual Abuse · Spirituality · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Dr. Leda Kaveh

Washington Psychological Wellness

PsyD

Licensed In:
Maryland, Virginia
“Washington Psychological Wellness is an award-winning, boutique-style psychotherapy practice providing therapy and counseling services for children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families throughout Maryland. Our clinicians help clients navigate anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, stress, relationship challenges, OCD, ADHD, behavioral concerns, parenting difficulties, life transitions, self-esteem issues, and emotional regulation challenges. We understand that seeking support can feel overwhelming. Whether you are facing a specific mental health concern or looking to better understand yourself and your relationships, our team provides personalized, evidence-based psychotherapy in a warm, supportive environment. We are committed to creating a space where clients feel seen, heard, and valued while developing practical skills, deeper insight, and lasting change. We offer in-person therapy in Rockville, Gaithersburg, and Germantown, Maryland, as well as virtual therapy throughout Maryland, Virginia, and DC.”
Services:
Child Therapy, Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Sex Therapy, Teen Therapy, Testing and Evaluations
Specialties:
Addiction · ADHD · Aging · Anger Management · Anxiety · Attachment · Autism · Behavioral Issues · Bipolar Disorder · Body Dysmorphia · Burnout · Cancer · Career Counseling · Caregiver Support · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Disability · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Eating Disorders · Educational and Learning Disabilities · End-of-Life · Executive Coaching · Faith-Based Care · Gender Identity · Grief · Highly Sensitive People (HSP) · Immigrant & Refugee Mental Health · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Insomnia & Sleep Disorders · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Menopause & Perimenopause · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Older Adults & Aging · Panic · Perfectionism · Personality Disorders · Phobias · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Self-Harming · Sexual Abuse · Spiritual Abuse · Spirituality · Substance Use · Suicidal Ideation · Trauma & PTSD · Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) · Weight Loss · Women’s Mental Health

About Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Use the directory above to find a therapist who offers this approach. Compare profiles for their approach, availability, fees, and insurance.

Select the states where you’ll attend sessions, then ask the therapist to confirm they can work with you in each state.

What to expect

Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a therapy approach built around the idea that you may have different inner parts or sides of yourself. Despite the name, it usually focuses on your inner world, not family therapy with your relatives in session.

Some parts try to protect you by worrying, criticizing, avoiding, shutting down, or staying in control. IFS helps you get curious about those reactions instead of fighting them, so you can understand what they are trying to do for you.

In online sessions, a therapist may guide you to notice thoughts, emotions, body cues, and patterns, then help you identify and understand the parts involved.

People often explore IFS for trauma-related patterns, anxiety, shame, self-criticism, people-pleasing, emotional overwhelm, or repeating relationship conflicts. If you want therapy that feels reflective, compassionate, and focused on your inner world, IFS may be a useful approach to consider.

How to choose a therapist

Not every therapist who offers Internal Family Systems (IFS) uses it the same way. Some use it as their main framework, while others blend it with other approaches or use parts work more loosely.

As you compare profiles, notice whether the therapist says IFS is central to their work, which concerns they use it for, and whether their style sounds gentle, structured, direct, or more open-ended.

Before booking, ask whether they offer IFS-centered work, IFS-informed therapy, or a blend, how they pace deeper work, and what support they offer if strong emotions come up. A good fit often depends on feeling understood, not rushed, and comfortable with the therapist’s communication style.

Before you book

  • Ask about the provider’s experience with your concerns and goals.
  • Confirm availability, session fees, and your insurance coverage directly.
  • Check that the provider can work with you in each state where you will attend sessions.

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Questions about this approach

How do I use this page to find an online therapist who offers Internal Family Systems (IFS)?

Start with the state where you will physically be during sessions, since telehealth availability depends on licensure. Then use filters for insurance, age group, language, service type, and therapy type. Look for profiles that specifically mention Internal Family Systems (IFS). Some therapists also use parts work language, so it helps to confirm whether they actively offer IFS or a broader parts-based approach before you book.

What should I ask before booking?

Ask how the therapist uses Internal Family Systems (IFS) in online sessions, whether it is a main approach or one tool among others, and what the first few appointments usually look like. You can also ask how they pace parts work, how they handle trauma, whether they work with your age group or concerns, and how payment, insurance, cancellations, and video sessions are handled. Good questions help you judge both fit and logistics.

Does my therapist have to be licensed in my state, and what happens if I travel out of state?

In most cases, yes. For telehealth, your therapist usually needs to be licensed in the state where you are physically located during the appointment, not just the state where you live. If you travel out of state, your therapist may or may not be able to keep seeing you during that time. Start with the states where you expect to be during sessions, or browse our find a therapist licensed in multiple states page.

Can Internal Family Systems (IFS) be done virtually through telehealth therapy, or does parts work need to happen in person?

Yes. Internal Family Systems (IFS) can often work well by video because much of the process involves talking, noticing thoughts and body sensations, and tracking which part of you is showing up. Many therapists adapt the pace for telehealth by building in grounding, check-ins, and time to settle before ending. If you are considering online IFS, ask how the therapist structures virtual sessions and what they do when deeper material comes up.

Who is Internal Family Systems (IFS) best for?

Internal Family Systems (IFS) can be a good fit if you often feel torn between different parts of yourself, like one part that wants closeness and another that pulls away, or one part that pushes hard while another feels overwhelmed. People explore IFS for trauma-related patterns, anxiety, shame, self-criticism, relationship struggles, emotional shutdown, or people-pleasing. It may appeal to you if you want a compassionate way to understand inner conflict, not just push symptoms away.

Do Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapists need special certification or training, and what is the difference between IFS-informed, trained, and certified therapy?

Therapists vary in how much IFS education they have. IFS-informed usually means they use IFS ideas or parts language. IFS-trained often means formal Internal Family Systems training, and certified usually indicates a formal added credential beyond training. Ask how they learned the model and how central IFS is in their work.

Does insurance cover online Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, and how does payment usually work?

Insurance coverage usually depends on the therapist’s license, your plan, and whether the provider is in network. Some online therapists bill insurance directly. Others are private pay and may offer a superbill for out-of-network reimbursement. Before booking, ask about session fees, copays, deductibles, sliding-scale spots, cancellation fees, and whether they can help you verify benefits for telehealth therapy.

When is online Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy not the right choice?

Online Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy may not be the best fit during an immediate crisis, when emergency support is needed, when a higher level of care is required, or when you do not have a private space or reliable internet connection. It may also be worth pausing if you feel too activated to stay present in virtual sessions. If you are in immediate danger or need urgent help, contact local emergency services or call or text 988 right away.

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