Find Online Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Therapists
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“I work with individuals navigating life’s challenges who are seeking a safe, welcoming, and supportive space to feel heard and understood. I am also an ally of the LGBTQIA+ community and welcome clients from diverse backgrounds and experiences.”
“I work with adults and couples who feel stuck in patterns that are difficult to change on their own. You may be dealing with anxiety, relationship conflict, emotional distance, recurring arguments, life transitions, or the sense that you understand the problem intellectually but still cannot seem to move forward. Couples often come to me when conversations quickly become defensive, withdrawn, or repetitive. I also work with individuals who want to better understand their emotions, relationships, values, and patterns so they can respond more intentionally rather than feeling controlled by them.”
“I specialize in working with individual adults experiencing relationship distress, stress-related problems, trauma issues, depression and mood dysregulation, parenting concerns, and life transitions.”
“Complex Trauma • Emotional & Mental Load • Quiet Survival Trauma therapy to help you move from just surviving to thriving in a life you love. I specialize in supporting adults who carry the cognitive and emotional weight of trauma, stress, and life experiences beneath the surface of everyday life. Many people describe this as the mental load of “adulting”—managing responsibilities, relationships, and internal pressure while still trying to move forward and build a meaningful life.”
“I have over fifteen years experience in working with children, adolescents, their families, and adults with various mental health disorders. In addition, I am committed to working with individuals presenting with body image and self-esteem issues, individuals being challenged by life transitions, individuals who are impacted and/or affected by stress and burnout and those who would like to engage in inner child healing.”
“Depression, Anxiety, ADHD, Relationships, Work/Life Balance, Couples and Marriage Therapy, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Men's Issues, Trauma, End of Life Issues, Grief / Bereavement, Family Issues, Stress Management, Gay / Lesbian / Bisexual Issues, Existential Issues.”
“I provide tailored guidance for couples who are seeking deeper connection, support through relational strain, or those seeking premarital counseling preparation through a non-religious lens. I also provide therapy for individuals ages 15 and older who are navigating challenges with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, childhood attachment wounds, or relational challenges, and families working to rebuild communication and boundaries. My approach is highly tailored, thoughtful, and grounded in the belief that each person deserves work that honors the nuances of their internal world. My practice is a safe, affirming space for all clients, including those within the LGBTQIA+ community.”
“I work with couples experiencing ongoing conflict, emotional disconnection, and recurring relationship challenges who want to rebuild trust and strengthen their connection. I also support individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, insecurity, unresolved trauma, or persistent emotional distress, even when they understand logically that things "should" be okay. My goal is to help clients develop healthier relationships with themselves and those they love.”
“I’m passionate about helping people explore their inner worlds and understand what holds them back. I work primarily with adults seeking therapy for anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, and a sense of feeling stuck or disconnected.”
“Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, navigating a major life transition, struggling with OCD, processing trauma, or feeling disconnected from your creativity, therapy can help. I work with adults from all walks of life, with a special passion for supporting LGBTQ+ clients, writers, artists, and other creatives in building meaningful, fulfilling lives.”
“If you're like many of my clients, you long for emotional safety, clarity, and the freedom to live with authenticity, purpose, and connection. Perhaps you are super self-aware yet trapped in cycles of anxiety, overwhelm, or disconnection. You might hold on extra tight, or find yourself shutting down. Trauma, self esteem challenges, and/or neurodivergence could be underlying your experiences. As an Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist, I'm here to guide you through exploring and befriending all of the parts of you, fostering healing, balance, and self-compassion at a pace that feels sustainable.”
About Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Use the directory above to find a therapist who offers this approach. Compare profiles for their approach, availability, fees, and insurance.
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What to expect
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a therapy approach that looks at how emotions, needs, and relationship patterns shape the way people connect. It is often used in couples therapy, and some therapists also use EFT with individuals or families. In online sessions, your therapist may help you slow down difficult conversations, notice the cycle you get caught in, name the feelings underneath conflict, and practice clearer ways of reaching for support. People often explore EFT when they want help with relationship distress, recurring arguments, emotional distance, trust concerns, life transitions, or feeling stuck in protective patterns. If you want therapy that pays close attention to emotions and connection, this approach may be worth exploring.
How to choose a therapist
As you compare online EFT therapists, look for someone whose profile explains how they use this approach and what kinds of clients or relationships they commonly work with. Fit matters: pacing, communication style, comfort with emotion, and how structured the sessions feel can all affect your experience. Before booking, you might ask whether the therapist offers EFT-informed therapy, how they work with couples or individuals online, what to expect in the first few sessions, and how they handle moments when conversations become intense. You can also ask about training or experience with EFT.
Before you book
- Ask about the provider’s experience with your concerns and goals.
- Confirm availability, session fees, and your insurance coverage directly.
- Check that the provider can work with you in each state where you will attend sessions.
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Explore another therapy approach or browse providers by specialty, location, and type of care. If you travel or live in more than one state, review your options for continuing care across locations.
Questions about this approach
How do I use this page to find an online therapist who offers Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)?
Start by choosing the state where you will be located during sessions. Then use filters for service type, age group, language, insurance, and therapy type. Read profiles for how each provider describes EFT, who they work with, and whether they offer individual, couples, or family therapy online. From there, compare availability, fees, and consultation options before reaching out.
What should I ask before booking?
Ask how the therapist uses Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), what the first few sessions are usually like, and whether their approach is more structured or exploratory. If you are coming with a partner or family member, ask how they manage joint sessions online. It can also help to ask about fees, insurance, cancellation policies, privacy for telehealth, and whether they offer a brief consultation.
Does my therapist have to be licensed in my state, and what happens if I travel out of state?
In most cases, your therapist must be allowed to practice where you are physically located at the time of session, not just where you live. If you travel or split time between states, tell potential therapists before booking. Some providers can work across more than one state, while others cannot. Learn more about finding a therapist licensed in multiple states.
Can Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) be done virtually through telehealth therapy?
Yes, many therapists offer Emotionally Focused Therapy through secure video sessions. Online EFT may involve talking through relationship patterns, practicing slower and more direct communication, and noticing emotions as they happen in session. For couples or families, each person needs a private, reliable place to join. Ask how the therapist structures online sessions and what they recommend if emotions run high.
Who is Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) best for, and is it only for couples?
EFT is often associated with couples who want help with conflict, disconnection, trust, or feeling stuck in the same argument. It may also be used with individuals or families, depending on the therapist’s practice. This approach may fit if you want to understand the emotions underneath your reactions and build safer, clearer connection. Review profiles to see who each therapist serves.
Do Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapists need special certification or training?
A therapist should be licensed to provide mental health care in the state where you are located for sessions. Beyond licensure, EFT training and certification can vary. Some providers may have completed formal EFT training, while others use EFT-informed ideas in their work. Before booking, ask how they learned the approach, how often they use it, and whether their experience fits your goals.
Does insurance cover online Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and how does payment usually work?
Coverage depends on your insurance plan, the therapist’s network status, your location, and the type of service provided. Use insurance filters when available, then confirm directly with the provider before your first appointment. Ask about session fees, superbills for out-of-network reimbursement, payment timing, and any cancellation fees. For couples therapy, also ask whether your plan covers relational or family sessions.
When is online Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) not the right choice?
Online therapy may not be the best fit during an immediate crisis, when emergency support is needed, when a higher level of care is required, or when you do not have a private space or reliable internet connection. If you are in immediate danger or need urgent help, contact local emergency services or call or text 988 right away. You can return to online EFT once safety and privacy needs are better supported.
Need urgent support? Therapy Expanded is not a crisis service. If you are in immediate danger, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room. If you need urgent mental health, suicide, domestic violence, substance use, or LGBTQIA+ support, visit our crisis and mental health resources page.