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Jenna Benson Sholl

Cura Integrative Health

LMFT

Licensed In:
California
“We all carry stress—sometimes from one big event, sometimes from years of feeling like we had to keep it together. Over time, this can leave us feeling wound down or wound up. You may be experiencing… Feeling worried a lot of the time Sleep disruption Persistent sadness or feeling down Feeling overwhelmed by daily life Irritability that’s hard to control Feeling disconnected Self-doubt Relationship problems Struggles with food or body image Perfectionist tendencies that get in the way When this becomes your “normal,” it’s easy to feel stuck. But it doesn’t have to stay that way.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Sex Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anxiety · Attachment · Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs) · Codependency · Depression · Divorce · Eating Disorders · Educational and Learning Disabilities · Insomnia & Sleep Disorders · Life Transitions · Menopause & Perimenopause · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Perfectionism · Personality Disorders · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Self-Harming · Sexual Abuse · Spiritual Abuse · Spirituality · Trauma & PTSD · Weight Loss · Women’s Mental Health
Mandi Withey

Mi Mind Matters

MLP

Licensed In:
Michigan
“I work with adults who are navigating anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, low self-esteem, life transitions, and emotional overwhelm. Many of my clients have experienced psychological abuse, religious trauma, complex trauma (C-PTSD), or difficult relationship patterns and are looking for clarity, healing, and healthier ways of relating to themselves and others. I also support individuals struggling with boundaries, attachment concerns, stress, feeling stuck, disconnected, or simply ready for growth.”
Services:
Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Anger Management · Anxiety · Attachment · Burnout · Depression · Grief · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Panic · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Lea Trageser, LMFT

Helix Marriage and Family Therapy PLLC

LMFT

Licensed In:
Massachusetts, New York
“Do you want to feel confident in yourself & your relationship with loved ones? Maybe you're a self identified perfectionist or people pleaser, struggle to say no or express yourself. You try to keep the peace, so you avoid conflict, put others first, & are stuck in a vicious cycle of bottling your emotions at the cost of internal peace. Only so much can be swept under the rug before it seeps out in other ways: Often anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem. Together we will process the past to build a better future. From family to intimate partners, friendships, & most importantly the relationship with yourself, I am here to help.”
Services:
Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Codependency · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Panic · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Luc Boudreau

Clutch Psychotherapy LLC

PCA, LMHCA, NCC

Licensed In:
Oregon, Washington
“You may look like you’re doing fine on the outside while quietly feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected on the inside. Perhaps you’re successful but exhausted from constantly pushing yourself, caught in patterns you can’t seem to break, or struggling with anxiety, shame, self-doubt, perfectionism, or relationship challenges. I specialize in helping adults who are experiencing the lasting effects of trauma and adverse childhood experiences. I also work with couples who want to rebuild trust, improve communication, deepen their connection, or break free from patterns that keep them stuck.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Anger Management · Anxiety · Attachment · Behavioral Issues · Bipolar Disorder · Codependency · Depression · Dissociative Disorders · Divorce · Executive Coaching · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Mood Disorders · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Older Adults & Aging · Panic · Perfectionism · Personality Disorders · Phobias · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Spiritual Abuse · Trauma & PTSD
Dr. Esther Lapite-Garrett | Alafiora

Alafiora

Licensed Psychologist

Licensed In:
Indiana, New Mexico
“At Alafiora, Dr. Lapite-Garrett works with clients where everything feels out of control, and these individuals can see themselves moving toward the edge but cannot stop. For some, this has meant slipping out of the office to meet an escort, initiating sexual contact with a colleague or subordinate they know could cost them everything, or spending thousands on escorts and sex dolls with relief that lasts less each time. For others, it has meant a consuming, one-sided devotion to someone who may barely register their existence, a person who has gone silent while the longing only intensifies. Some have stopped engaging with people altogether, bonded to an AI companion that requires nothing and cannot leave, finding real human contact unbearable by comparison. Others are caught in trauma reenactment, pulled into situations that mirror what was done to them, not by choice but by a nervous system that has learned to find danger familiar. Alafiora specializes in working with these individuals and in helping them slowly, meaningfully begin to press the brakes.”
Services:
Individual Therapy, Sex Therapy, Teen Therapy, Testing and Evaluations
Specialties:
Addiction · Anxiety · Attachment · Behavioral Issues · Codependency · Depression · Highly Sensitive People (HSP) · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Men’s Mental Health · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Out-of-Control Sexual Behavior · Personality Disorders · Phobias · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Cristina Bautista

Talkology

Psy. D., LMFT

Licensed In:
California, Florida, Texas
“I provided effective psychotherapy for a wide range of mental health concerns, offering a supportive and neutral space for children, adolescents, individuals, families, and couples.”
Services:
Child Therapy, Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · ADHD · Adoption · Aging · Anger Management · Anxiety · Attachment · Behavioral Issues · Bipolar Disorder · Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs) · Burnout · Career Counseling · Caregiver Support · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Dementia · Depression · Disability · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Educational and Learning Disabilities · Executive Coaching · Faith-Based Care · Grief · Hoarding · Immigrant & Refugee Mental Health · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Insomnia & Sleep Disorders · Life Transitions · Menopause & Perimenopause · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Older Adults & Aging · Panic · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Perfectionism · Personality Disorders · Phobias · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Spiritual Abuse · Spirituality · Substance Use · Suicidal Ideation · Trauma & PTSD · Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) · Weight Loss · Women’s Mental Health
Freesia Therapy Collective

Freesia Therapy Collective

LMFTA, LSWAIC, LMHCA

Licensed In:
Washington
“At Freesia Therapy Collective, we provide compassionate online therapy for individuals, couples, families, teens and young adults throughout Washington State. We support people facing a wide range of life challenges — including anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, anger, neurodivergence, substance use, relational stress, identity concerns, and more — with tailored, culturally responsive care. Our affirming practice welcomes clients of all sexual orientations, gender identities, races, cultures, faiths, and relationship structures, including LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent individuals. We meet you where you are, honoring your unique story, strengths, and goals to foster healing, resilience, and meaningful personal growth.”
Services:
Child Therapy, Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Sex Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · ADHD · Aging · Anger Management · Anxiety · Autism · Behavioral Issues · Bipolar Disorder · Burnout · Career Counseling · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Disability · Dissociative Disorders · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Educational and Learning Disabilities · Gender Identity · Grief · Immigrant & Refugee Mental Health · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Insomnia & Sleep Disorders · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Panic · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Perfectionism · Personality Disorders · Phobias · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Psychosis · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Self-Harming · Sexual Abuse · Spirituality · Substance Use · Suicidal Ideation · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Sarah Archer

LB Therapy

LPC

Licensed In:
Texas
“I enjoy working with adults who are going through difficult seasons of life and may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or simply not like themselves. I support clients navigating anxiety, depression, grief and loss, divorce, co-parenting challenges, relationship struggles, and major life transitions. I especially love helping women feel heard and supported while they work through change and find their confidence again.”
Services:
Individual Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anxiety · Autism · Depression · Divorce · Grief · Life Transitions · Menopause & Perimenopause · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Self Esteem · Women’s Mental Health
Alyssa Nagel

Whole Life Wellness, Inc.

LPC

Licensed In:
Arkansas, Missouri, Oregon
“People with trauma, CPTSD, relationship issues, neurodivergence, life changes, anxiety, depression, and nontraditional relationships (CNM/poly/kink).”
Services:
Individual Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anxiety · Attachment · Autism · Burnout · Codependency · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Gender Identity · Grief · Highly Sensitive People (HSP) · Life Transitions · Menopause & Perimenopause · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Sexual Abuse · Spiritual Abuse · Spirituality · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Ellen Mail, MSW, LICSW, PMH-C

First Crocus Psychotherapy, LLC

LICSW, PMH-C

Licensed In:
Indiana, Massachusetts
“I work with clients experiencing distress related to difficult seasons and transitions, such as: ・pregnancy and postpartum-related depression and anxiety ・new parenthood ・depression, anxiety or life-limiting illness ・bereavement or anticipatory loss”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Chronic Pain and Illness · Depression · Grief · Life Transitions · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Ashley Claiborne

Dr. Ashley Cares

PsyD

Licensed In:
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, DC, West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
“Empowering you to find a healthy balance! Are you the go-to person that everyone turns to with their problems? It's great to be relied on, but sometimes it can feel like a lot, right? If you are an overachiever juggling a lot on your plate and feeling the weight of anxiety, depression, or work stress, you're not alone. Here, you will find a safe and confidential space to unpack those heavy feelings with someone who gets it. Let's work together to ease that burden and find some balance in your life. Ready to take that first step towards feeling better? Let's chat.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Testing and Evaluations
Specialties:
Zach Dodd

LPC

Licensed In:
Oklahoma, Texas
“Adolescents, Teens, Adults Individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, men’s health issues”
Services:
Child Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:

About Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

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What to expect

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a therapy approach that looks at how emotions, needs, and relationship patterns shape the way people connect. It is often used in couples therapy, and some therapists also use EFT with individuals or families. In online sessions, your therapist may help you slow down difficult conversations, notice the cycle you get caught in, name the feelings underneath conflict, and practice clearer ways of reaching for support. People often explore EFT when they want help with relationship distress, recurring arguments, emotional distance, trust concerns, life transitions, or feeling stuck in protective patterns. If you want therapy that pays close attention to emotions and connection, this approach may be worth exploring.

How to choose a therapist

As you compare online EFT therapists, look for someone whose profile explains how they use this approach and what kinds of clients or relationships they commonly work with. Fit matters: pacing, communication style, comfort with emotion, and how structured the sessions feel can all affect your experience. Before booking, you might ask whether the therapist offers EFT-informed therapy, how they work with couples or individuals online, what to expect in the first few sessions, and how they handle moments when conversations become intense. You can also ask about training or experience with EFT.

Before you book

  • Ask about the provider’s experience with your concerns and goals.
  • Confirm availability, session fees, and your insurance coverage directly.
  • Check that the provider can work with you in each state where you will attend sessions.

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Questions about this approach

How do I use this page to find an online therapist who offers Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)?

Start by choosing the state where you will be located during sessions. Then use filters for service type, age group, language, insurance, and therapy type. Read profiles for how each provider describes EFT, who they work with, and whether they offer individual, couples, or family therapy online. From there, compare availability, fees, and consultation options before reaching out.

What should I ask before booking?

Ask how the therapist uses Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), what the first few sessions are usually like, and whether their approach is more structured or exploratory. If you are coming with a partner or family member, ask how they manage joint sessions online. It can also help to ask about fees, insurance, cancellation policies, privacy for telehealth, and whether they offer a brief consultation.

Does my therapist have to be licensed in my state, and what happens if I travel out of state?

In most cases, your therapist must be allowed to practice where you are physically located at the time of session, not just where you live. If you travel or split time between states, tell potential therapists before booking. Some providers can work across more than one state, while others cannot. Learn more about finding a therapist licensed in multiple states.

Can Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) be done virtually through telehealth therapy?

Yes, many therapists offer Emotionally Focused Therapy through secure video sessions. Online EFT may involve talking through relationship patterns, practicing slower and more direct communication, and noticing emotions as they happen in session. For couples or families, each person needs a private, reliable place to join. Ask how the therapist structures online sessions and what they recommend if emotions run high.

Who is Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) best for, and is it only for couples?

EFT is often associated with couples who want help with conflict, disconnection, trust, or feeling stuck in the same argument. It may also be used with individuals or families, depending on the therapist’s practice. This approach may fit if you want to understand the emotions underneath your reactions and build safer, clearer connection. Review profiles to see who each therapist serves.

Do Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapists need special certification or training?

A therapist should be licensed to provide mental health care in the state where you are located for sessions. Beyond licensure, EFT training and certification can vary. Some providers may have completed formal EFT training, while others use EFT-informed ideas in their work. Before booking, ask how they learned the approach, how often they use it, and whether their experience fits your goals.

Does insurance cover online Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and how does payment usually work?

Coverage depends on your insurance plan, the therapist’s network status, your location, and the type of service provided. Use insurance filters when available, then confirm directly with the provider before your first appointment. Ask about session fees, superbills for out-of-network reimbursement, payment timing, and any cancellation fees. For couples therapy, also ask whether your plan covers relational or family sessions.

When is online Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) not the right choice?

Online therapy may not be the best fit during an immediate crisis, when emergency support is needed, when a higher level of care is required, or when you do not have a private space or reliable internet connection. If you are in immediate danger or need urgent help, contact local emergency services or call or text 988 right away. You can return to online EFT once safety and privacy needs are better supported.

Need urgent support? Therapy Expanded is not a crisis service. If you are in immediate danger, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room. If you need urgent mental health, suicide, domestic violence, substance use, or LGBTQIA+ support, visit our crisis and mental health resources page.