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Melissa Daoud

Thrive Hive Counseling

LMFT

Licensed In:
California, Virginia
“I help clients manage stressors tied to school, work, and identity. Since everyone feels differently, I tailor my approach, integrating tools to regulate emotions while honoring the unique systems and environments you live in. Many of the people I work with come to therapy feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, OCD, ADHD, depression, trauma, relationship challenges, or emotions that feel difficult to manage. Others are navigating life transitions, identity development, family conflict, or the unique challenges that come with growing up in today’s world. I especially like helping clients better understand themselves, strengthen their relationships, and develop practical tools they can use long after therapy ends. I enjoy working with children and tweens with big emotions, with a strong emphasis on parent involvement. I also have a passion for working with children of immigrant families and individuals navigating cultural or generational experiences within their families.”
Services:
Child Therapy, Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
ADHD · Anxiety · Behavioral Issues · Bipolar Disorder · Depression · Highly Sensitive People (HSP) · Mood Disorders · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Phobias · Self-Harming · Suicidal Ideation
Kate McNulty

Kate McNulty LCSW

LCSW

Licensed In:
Florida, Maine, New York, Oregon, South Carolina, Washington
“I see adults and most of my work is within these three categories: 1.) relationship concerns, 2.) sexual issues and 3.) neurodivergence, most often Autism and ADHD. Sometimes we're addressing all these topics at the same time. My clients may also seek my help for family relationships with siblings or parents. I tend to work with people who are resourceful and inquisitive and who have run out of their own ideas for addressing their concerns.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Cheryl DeLorey

Cheryl DeLorey Wellness

LMHC, LPC, PhD

Licensed In:
Maine, Massachusetts, Ohio, South Carolina
“I work with women and couples navigating intimacy, desire, emotional disconnection, and relationship challenges. Couples often come to me feeling more like roommates than partners, stuck in recurring conflict, struggling with mismatched desire, or trying to rebuild trust and connection after betrayal or rupture. I also work individually with women who feel disconnected from desire, pleasure, sexual confidence, or their bodies, particularly during periods of stress, burnout, parenting, perimenopause, menopause, or other life transitions. My work may also include anxiety or shame around intimacy, neurodiversity and relationship dynamics, and the impact of past experiences on sexuality and connection. I’m especially well suited for clients who want to understand what is happening beneath the surface and create relationships and intimate lives that feel more connected, authentic, and sustainable.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Sex Therapy
Specialties:
Consensual Non-Monogamy · Life Transitions · Relationship Issues · Sexual Abuse · Women’s Mental Health
Vanessa Lowrey

Collaborative Healing

LPC (MO, WI), LCPC (IL)

Licensed In:
Illinois, Missouri, Wisconsin
“I work with adolescents and adults with addiction, depression, anxiety, trauma, communication concerns, transitions, & other difficult areas of life. I have compassion for those struggling with addiction, trauma, mood disorders, marital and relationship issues, including affair repair. I provide individual, couples, and family counseling.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · Depression · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Substance Use · Trauma & PTSD
Andrea Kremer

Relate Mental Health

LMHC

Licensed In:
Maine, Massachusetts
“I enjoy working with relationships, whether I'm seeing individuals or couples. Research shows that humans are wired for connection, and that supportive relationships are a key contributing factor to health, happiness, and even longevity. We'll collaborate to explore the attachment issues, "old stories," and patterns of interaction that keep you stuck in conflict or disconnection. I believe it's possible for partners to rebuild trust, improve communication, deepen mutual understanding, and move toward a healthier way of relating, whether they ultimately choose to stay together or respectfully go their separate ways. I welcome the opportunity to work with clients of all gender identities, orientations, and relationship structures, including polyamory/non-monogamy. I also leverage 20+ years of experience in the music industry to provide mental health care for bands and performing artists.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Sex Therapy
Specialties:
Consensual Non-Monogamy · Divorce · Life Transitions · Relationship Issues · Women’s Mental Health
Jennifer Bruno

Fruitful Seeds Counseling, LLC

LCSW

Licensed In:
Pennsylvania
“Jennifer able to serve children, teens, adults, couples and families. She enjoy working with clients who are ready to better understand their thoughts, sort out their feelings and place a name to their experiences. Clients who are ready to look at and improve the relationship they have with themselves and/or others are ones she is able to best serve. Jennifer is passionate about Men's mental health, clients who are looking to improve in the following areas: self worth, overcome people pleasing, codependency and learn how to create and implement effective boundaries. She am also able to offer faith based counseling and incorporate a spiritual component to clients upon request.”
Services:
Child Therapy, Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · ADHD · Adoption · Aging · Anger Management · Anxiety · Attachment · Burnout · Cancer · Career Counseling · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Dementia · Depression · Disability · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Educational and Learning Disabilities · Grief · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Men’s Mental Health · Perfectionism · Relationship Issues · Self Esteem · Spirituality · Trauma & PTSD · Women’s Mental Health
Sarah Marcus

White Horse Healing

LCSW

Licensed In:
Idaho
“I work with mom’s and Couples. The niche I serve it is a couple couples who are navigating parenthood and life changes.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Sex Therapy
Specialties:
Anxiety · Attachment · Burnout · Divorce · Grief · Life Transitions · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Women’s Mental Health
Naomi Duffy

Weaving Clarity

LCSW

Licensed In:
California
“Imagine a world where you like who you truly are at the core. A world where you no longer worry about the judgement of others. This is that door. I invite you to walk through it together. This is psychotherapy for adults who are looking for longevity in therapy and longing to heal the origin of their pain; for those in search of completely changing their life. When you're tired of being tired and have tried other options that seem to come back to the same end, this is the beginning of something different.”
Services:
Child Therapy, Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Sex Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · ADHD · Adoption · Aging · Anger Management · Anxiety · Attachment · Autism · Behavioral Issues · Bipolar Disorder · Burnout · Cancer · Career Counseling · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Depression · Dissociative Disorders · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Gender Identity · Grief · Hoarding · Immigrant & Refugee Mental Health · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Insomnia & Sleep Disorders · Life Transitions · Men’s Mental Health · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Panic · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Perfectionism · Personality Disorders · Phobias · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Psychosis · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Self-Harming · Sexual Abuse · Spirituality · Substance Use · Suicidal Ideation · Trauma & PTSD · Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) · Weight Loss · Women’s Mental Health
Christopher Skaggs

LGBTQ Therapy

MA, LMFT

Licensed In:
Hawaii, Washington
“I primarily work with adults and couples who are navigating trauma, relational distress, and major life transitions, especially where identity, attachment, and meaning are central.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Family Therapy, Group Therapy, Individual Therapy, Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP)
Specialties:
Anxiety · Attachment · Codependency · Depression · Gender Identity · Men’s Mental Health · Relationship Issues · Trauma & PTSD
Holly Doughty

Safe Harbor Counseling

LPC

Licensed In:
Wisconsin
“I primarily work with adults who have complex trauma. I specialize in depression and anxiety. I have years of experience working with chronic pain and its connection with trauma.”
Services:
Child Therapy, Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Teen Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · ADHD · Adoption · Aging · Anger Management · Anxiety · Attachment · Autism · Behavioral Issues · Bipolar Disorder · Body Dysmorphia · Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs) · Burnout · Cancer · Career Counseling · Caregiver Support · Chronic Pain and Illness · Codependency · Consensual Non-Monogamy · Dementia · Depression · Disability · Dissociative Disorders · Divorce · Domestic Abuse · Educational and Learning Disabilities · End-of-Life · Executive Coaching · Faith-Based Care · Grief · Highly Sensitive People (HSP) · Hoarding · Infertility & Reproductive Mental Health · Infidelity / Affair Recovery · Insomnia & Sleep Disorders · Men’s Mental Health · Menopause & Perimenopause · Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) · Older Adults & Aging · Panic · Parent-Child Bonding & Attachment · Perfectionism · Personality Disorders · Phobias · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Psychosis · Relationship Issues · Religious Trauma & Spiritual Abuse · Self Esteem · Self-Harming · Sexual Abuse · Substance Use · Suicidal Ideation · Trauma & PTSD · Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) · Weight Loss · Women’s Mental Health
Keri Green, LMFT, CST

Keri Green, LMFT

LMFT, CST

Licensed In:
California, Colorado
“I work with adults and couples looking for support along their sexual journey. Most clients are seeking guidance in relation to their possible mismatched desire with their partner, healing through sexual trauma, psychoeducation around sex and intimacy, learning new communication skills to have vulnerable conversations about sex with both themselves and their partner, sexual dysfunction concerns, and more.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy
Specialties:
Amy Wong

LMFT

Licensed In:
Connecticut, South Carolina, Texas, Vermont
“I work with individuals and couples who feel stuck, disconnected, or overwhelmed in their relationships and emotional lives. Many of my clients are navigating relationship distress, communication breakdowns, trust injuries, life transitions, anxiety, or unresolved trauma. I often support partners where one is leaning in and the other is leaning out, helping them clarify goals and move toward the healthiest path forward. I also work with adults seeking deeper self-understanding, stronger boundaries, and more secure attachment patterns. My clients are motivated for meaningful change and willing to look honestly at patterns, build new skills, and create more intentional, fulfilling relationships.”
Services:
Couples Therapy, Individual Therapy, Parenting Therapy, Sex Therapy
Specialties:
Addiction · Anxiety · Attachment · Codependency · Depression · Divorce · Life Transitions · Pregnancy, Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health · Substance Use

About Gottman Method

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What to expect

Gottman Method Couples Therapy is a structured approach to couples counseling that focuses on how partners communicate, handle conflict, respond when the other person reaches for connection, and rebuild trust over time. In online sessions, a therapist may spend early appointments getting a picture of your relationship, noticing recurring patterns, and guiding you through practical tools to slow arguments, repair after a hard moment, and strengthen day-to-day connection. People often look for this approach when they feel stuck in the same fights, want better communication, are preparing for marriage or long-term commitment, or are trying to recover from distance, resentment, or a breach of trust. If you want couples therapy that is active, organized, and skill-based, Gottman Method may be worth exploring.

How to choose a therapist

Look for a therapist who clearly works with couples and explains how Gottman Method is used in telehealth sessions. Some profiles mention formal Gottman Method training, while others describe Gottman-informed work within a broader couples approach. Think about pace, too: do you want weekly skill-building, support after a recent rupture, or premarital work with a clear roadmap? Compare profiles for experience with issues like recurring conflict, emotional distance, trust repair, parenting stress, or life transitions. Pay attention to communication style as well. The right fit often feels balanced, practical, and nonjudgmental. Before booking, ask how online sessions are run, whether partners can join from different locations, and what the first few appointments usually look like.

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Questions about this approach

How do I use this page to find an online therapist who offers Gottman Method?

Start with the state filter for the state or states where you will be physically located during sessions. Then narrow results by service type, insurance, language, therapy type, and any other filters that matter to you. Read profiles for mentions of Gottman Method, couples counseling, relationship issues, premarital work, or marriage counseling. Compare a few providers, note who seems to fit your goals, and reach out to ask practical questions before booking.

What should I ask before booking?

Ask how the therapist uses Gottman Method in online work, what the first few sessions look like, and whether the process is more structured or more flexible. You can also ask whether they work with couples at your stage of relationship, how they handle high conflict, whether they use assessments or between-session exercises, and whether both partners can attend from different locations if needed.

Does my therapist have to be licensed in my state, and what happens if I travel out of state?

Usually, yes. In most cases, your therapist needs to be licensed in the state where you are physically located during the session, not just the state where you live. If you travel, move between states, or you and your partner join from different places, ask about this before scheduling. If you need more flexibility, it may help to find a therapist licensed in multiple states.

Can Gottman Method be done virtually through telehealth therapy?

Yes. Gottman Method can often translate well to telehealth because the therapist is still watching how you and your partner communicate, interrupt, repair, shut down, or reconnect in real time. Online sessions may include structured questions, guided conversations, and practical exercises to use between appointments. Before you book, ask whether both partners can join from separate devices or different locations and how the therapist handles privacy and conflict online.

Who is Gottman Method best for?

Gottman Method is often a good fit for dating, engaged, married, or long-term partners who want practical help with recurring arguments, communication problems, emotional distance, trust repair after a rupture, or premarital support. It often appeals to people who like a clear, skills-based approach instead of only open-ended talking. It usually works best when both partners are willing to participate, look at patterns honestly, and practice new ways of responding between sessions.

Do Gottman Method therapists need special certification or training?

Some therapists complete formal Gottman Method Couples Therapy trainings, and a smaller group go on to complete the full certification track. Others may describe their work as Gottman-informed and blend those tools with broader couples therapy. Profiles may use different wording, so focus on whether the therapist regularly works with couples, explains how they use the approach online, and seems like a strong fit for your goals.

Does insurance cover online Gottman Method therapy, and how does payment usually work?

Coverage varies by plan and provider. Some therapists are in-network, some are out-of-network, and some are private pay only. Couples therapy coverage can be more complicated than individual therapy, so ask how sessions are billed, what the fee is, whether a superbill is available, and what your out-of-pocket cost may be. Checking this before the first appointment can save you stress later.

When is online Gottman Method therapy not the right choice?

Online Gottman Method therapy may not be the best fit during an immediate crisis, when emergency support is needed, when a higher level of care is required, or when you do not have a private space or reliable internet connection. It may also be a poor fit if joint sessions do not feel safe. If you are in immediate danger or need urgent help, contact local emergency services or call or text 988 right away.

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